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<channel><title><![CDATA[Allergy Mom - learning to live with it - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/blog.html]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2012 05:13:09 -0400</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Food Allergy Awareness Giveaway Contest]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2012/05/food-allergy-awareness-giveaway-contest.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2012/05/food-allergy-awareness-giveaway-contest.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 10:18:06 -0400</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2012/05/food-allergy-awareness-giveaway-contest.html</guid><description><![CDATA[        [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-thin " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a href='http://thebugabees.blogspot.ca/2012/04/at-long-last-sequel-to-bugabees-friends.html' target='_blank'> <img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/9396508.jpg?501" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style='text-align:justify;'><br /><strong style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); ">The winner is Ellen of www.foodallergyparent.com.</strong><br /><br /><font color="#ff0000"><strong>Congratulations Ellen! Please contact me to receive your free brand new copy of The Bugybops.</strong></font><br /><br /><font color="#ff0000"><strong>Thank you everyone for participating. The contest is now closed.</strong></font><br /><br />May is Food Allergy Awareness Month in Canada and is a very special time for those living with life threatening food allergies. To help increase awareness of anaphylaxis and in&nbsp;honour&nbsp;of Food Allergy Awareness Month, Allergymom is giving away a brand new copy of <a href="http://thebugabees.blogspot.ca/2012/04/at-long-last-sequel-to-bugabees-friends.html" target="_blank" title="">The Bugybops: Friends For All Time</a>, the sequel to <a href="http://www.amazon.ca/BugaBees-Friends-Food-Allergies/dp/1592982794/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1336654262&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" title="">The BugaBees: Friends with Food Allergies</a>, written by Amy Recob. The new book focuses on children who do not have food allergies themselves, but try to help make life just a little bit easier for those who do.&nbsp;<br /><br />To participate in the contest, post an answer to the following question:<br /><br /><font color="#000000"><strong><em><font size="2">What has made YOUR life easier when dealing with food allergies?</font></em></strong><br /></font><br />It could be anybody or anything that has made your life easier while dealing with food allergies&nbsp;- a book, an organization, a web site, a magazine, or even a person such as a health professional, teacher, or family member.&nbsp;<br /><br /><strong>Deadline is May 20, 2012.&nbsp;</strong><br /><br />The contest is open to US and Canadian residents only. The answer must be provided in the comments section of this blog post. Don't forget to include your email address <em>(which will not be published)</em>, so Allergymom can contact you. The winner will be selected at random and announced on May 21, 2012.<br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[New School Anaphylaxis Policy]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2012/02/new-school-anaphylaxis-policy.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2012/02/new-school-anaphylaxis-policy.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 26 Feb 2012 19:15:49 -0400</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2012/02/new-school-anaphylaxis-policy.html</guid><description><![CDATA[ [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style=' float: left; z-index: 10; position: relative; ;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a href='http://www.hrsb.ns.ca/' target='_blank'><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/8693201.gif?178" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -0px; margin-bottom: 0px; text-align: center;"></div></span> <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: justify; display: block; ">One of the many things we found frustrating about daycare in general when we tried to enroll our daughter was the lack of any solid policy or even guideline with regards to food allergies and anaphylaxis. The daycare act briefly touched on the subject constituting that no child shall be discriminated against based on disability&nbsp;<em style="">(though children with food allergies are not even considered disabled under the official definition of disability for many government organizations)</em>. The daycare act points out that food allergies exist and so daycares may have to accommodate children with food allergies, most likely in reference to peanut &amp; tree nut allergies. In any case, I think daycares in this province are practically ignorant when it comes to other life threatening food allergies. That being said, there are a small number of them who acknowledge the severity of food allergies and refuse to take in children with severe allergies simply because they do not have the means to keep the child safe. I talked about all that in previous posts. So if you are still muddling through the daycare swamp, please feel free to take a look at my&nbsp;<a href="http://www.allergymom.ca/1/category/daycare/1.html" target="_blank" title="" style="">family's experience</a>. I warn you though; it's not pretty and some of the comments are just down right nasty. But you may find some of it helpful.<br /><br />Moving on to school... perhaps one of the main differences between public school and daycare is the fact that public education is available to everyone. Every child has the right to an education in public school and every child has the right to be safe in school. Unlike daycare, public schools do not have paying customers. They may have strong PTAs and uncooperative parents&nbsp;<em style="">(that could very easily make your life a living hell if they wish to)</em>&nbsp;but public schools cannot deny your child the right to an education. Daycare on the other hand, is allowed to tell you that staff "cannot handle your child" or that your child's presence "requires too much work and is inconveniencing everyone". Daycare can also tell you that they have no spot&nbsp;<em style="">(even when you know the spot is still available because you just talked to a mom who said she got the call two days ago for the same spot, the very same one you got the call about three days ago to tell you it was gone)</em>&nbsp;and they can simply choose to accept a child based on his/her disability. They accept a child that comes with funding. It sounds like discrimination but unfortunately under the daycare act, it is not. They can choose a child with autism for example, because that child would most likely be getting funding from the province, whereas a child with food allergies is not. But I'm not going to ramble on about daycare. I've ranted about this subject till I turned blue in the face. Today I want to talk about schools, because I have good news.<br /><br />Last year, something very important&nbsp;<em style="">(and massive, and huge, and I have no idea why this was not publicized or hyped up)</em>&nbsp;happened in the public school arena. You probably already knew that the Halifax Regional School Board had long established an anaphylaxis policy, which was not as extensive as school boards in other provinces but at least it was a step in the right direction&nbsp;<em style="">(or left, or backwards if you actually read the policy)</em>. The HRSB&nbsp;<em style="">(aka Halifax Regional School Board. I'm so getting tired of typing the whole name so I'm just gonna use acronyms, k?)</em>&nbsp;adopted a&nbsp;<a href="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/halifax_schools_anaphylaxis_policies.pdf" target="_blank" title="" style="">life threatening allergies policy</a>&nbsp;that was basically divided into two small sections&nbsp;<em style="">(and I mean small, as in short, vague, unfocused, non committal and shorter than the word 'short')</em>.<br /><br />It included a policy section, which was one paragraph long and a procedure section that had several sub sections. Each of those sub sections outlined responsibilities of the school principal, classroom teacher, parents/guardians of the allergic child, and the allergic child. The part involving the staff was particularly lacking in identifying the responsibilities of the teacher given that the classroom teacher is possibly the one staff member who will be directly involved with your child and has the most contact with him/her throughout the day. Perhaps someone at the time thought they were doing us a favor by even considering to adopt a life threatening allergies policy. In my opinion, the old policy, in no way shape or form, addressed even the most minor of concerns to parents of food allergic children.<br /><br />In March 2011, things changed dramatically, and to the better in my opinion. The old policy was revised and an&nbsp;<a href="http://www.hrsb.ns.ca/files/downloads/pdf/board/policy/sectionc/c.012-life-threatening-allergies.pdf" target="_blank" title="" style="">updated version</a>&nbsp;was created. There's always room for improvement but still, the efforts put forth by the parties involved are commendable and appreciated. The changes to the policy are substantial and include a much more detailed description of the responsibilities of all the different parties involved as well as a clear reference to the policy framework. The entire document is comprised of two sections, policy and procedures, each outlined in further detail with additional sub sections discussing various aspects of the policy. Let me summarize them for you&nbsp;<em style="">(because I'm that kind of person, giving and sharing in every way, in sickness and in health as they say)</em>.<br /><br />This Policy section is just an intro but it does three very important things. It outlines the main principles of the policy, the framework it's based on, and last but not least, authorizes the development and implementation of procedures that may support the policy. The policy acknowledges that HRSB&nbsp;<em style="">(and by extension all schools under their jurisdiction)</em>&nbsp;will maximize the safety of children with life threatening food allergies&nbsp;<em style="">(i.e. you will no longer be given lame excuses such as "we can't handle your child")</em>. That acknowledgement by default recognizes that anaphylaxis is a serious condition that poses safety concerns if certain procedures are not put it place to protect the child.&nbsp;<br /><br />The policy also highlights the holy trinity of allergies and anaphylaxis: information &amp; awareness, avoidance, and emergency response. That means no more contemplating whether to call 911 or "just wait for it to pass" and also means that it is not unreasonable to request a one on one meeting with staff who will be dealing with your child to talk to them about your child's allergies and safety. It also means that the classroom teacher cannot force your child to participate in any activity involving food that may pose a risk to your child's safety. More importantly, it clearly identifies that managing anaphylaxis is a group effort that involves not only parents and caregivers of an allergic child but also school staff, other parents and the entire school community. This is something that was totally absent in the old policy, adopted in 1997.&nbsp;<em style="">(After 13 years, someone decided that it was time... better late than never!)</em><br /><br />The Procedures section is broken out into six different parts. Each outlines in detail the responsibilities of the respective parties and guidelines on what to do in the event of an allergic reaction. One of the key points in this section is the determination to review the entire policy every three years. That is a huge step forward. It indicates that there is an understanding that things change and what may have worked in the past may no longer work in the present. It gives the policy some flexibility to adjust to any number of changing conditions, something that was also missed in the old policy.<br /><br />The meat of the policy though, is in the outlined responsibilities of all the parties involved. Those include the principal, school staff, parents of the allergic child, and the allergic child him/herself. The principal has the most autonomy and a broad range of authorization to do whatever he/she deems necessary to keep the allergic child safe within the school environment. That means that you no longer have to fight with the teacher to make the classroom food free. Decisions such as having all children eat in the cafeteria as opposed to the classroom for example, are things within the purview of the principal. What's new in the policy is the requirement to post&nbsp;names and pictures of students with an Anaphylaxis Emergency Plan attached to their file. The old policy required that the principal post "allergy alert forms" which is a very general and non specific term. That could be anything - a form with the student's name and allergy on it or just a piece of paper that says peanut allergy in classroom A. The new policy identifies that it is a plan specific to each child who has an allergy and that it must be readily available at the office and staff room in case of emergency. The principal also is required to notify the parents immediately if it is discovered that their child does not have his/her auto-injector.<br /><br />The staff section was also expanded to include important matters such as ensuring that there are steps in place to protect an allergic child during classroom celebrations and events. Staff also are required to notify parents of the allergic child when classroom activities involve food. The policy also states that staff need to take into account food allergies when purchasing or using supplies and materials for class activities. That means that for a child who is severely allergic to milk, the classroom teacher is going to have to use something other than the famous goldfish crackers&nbsp;<em style="">(doused in cheese)</em>&nbsp;to teach students how to count. Even if the child will not be eating the crackers, he/she will still not be able to touch them without risking an allergic reaction or touch any other students who handled the crackers&nbsp;<em style="">(otherwise known as cross contamination in our fun filled world of allergies)</em>.<br /><br />The section about parent and child responsibilities has also been expanded. Of note is the fact that the old policy stated that the allergic child must know how to use an auto-injector, without stipulating that children under 7 cannot be expected to use the injector properly even if, in theory, they know how. The new policy clearly points out that children under 7 are not expected to inject themselves and so the responsibility falls onto the staff.<br /><br />In addition, the new policy includes an appendix that lists the definitions of several key words related to allergies and anaphylaxis, such as allergen, epinephrine and auto injector. This is a brilliant idea and it makes total sense.&nbsp;Given the sheer number of people who assume my daughter is simply "lactose intolerant" when I mention that she is allergic to dairy,&nbsp;why on earth would we expect them to know the meaning of the medical terms we commonly use in reference to allergies, especially when we've had to learn all those terms ourselves, out of necessity? Last but not least, the new policy also includes a copy of what the Emergency Anaphylaxis Plan looks like.&nbsp;<br /><br />In short, the updated policy is more clear and precise about the functions and responsibilities of the parents, child and school. It may not seem like much because it's all on paper but for us, this is huge progress, one that we welcome with open arms.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/halifax_schools_anaphylaxis_policies.pdf" target="_blank" title="" style="">Click here to see the 1997 Life Threatening Allergies Policy</a>&nbsp;<em style="">(the old policy)</em><br /><br /><a href="http://www.hrsb.ns.ca/files/downloads/pdf/board/policy/sectionc/c.012-life-threatening-allergies.pdf" target="_blank" title="" style="">Click here for the 2011 Life Threatening Allergies Policy</a>&nbsp;<em style="">(updated version)</em><br /><br />You may also be interested in the&nbsp;<a href="http://www.hrsb.ns.ca/files/downloads/pdf/board/policy/sectionc/c.011-severe-medical-conditions.pdf" target="_blank" title="" style="">Severe Medical Conditions Policy</a>, which forms part of the framework of the Updated Life Threatening Allergies Policy.<br /><br />We are still embarking on this school journey/adventure/nightmare and in doing so we will be learning new things which I will make sure to pass along to you. In theory, the policy sounds very good. In practice, the functionality remains to be seen. I'm crossing my fingers and toes!&nbsp;<br /></div> <hr  style=" clear: both; visibility: hidden; width: 100%; "></hr>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why you need to read the label every time...]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2012/02/why-you-need-to-read-the-label-every-time.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2012/02/why-you-need-to-read-the-label-every-time.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 15:05:53 -0400</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2012/02/why-you-need-to-read-the-label-every-time.html</guid><description><![CDATA[  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style=' float: left; z-index: 10; position: relative; ;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/587139.jpg" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;"></div></span> <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: justify; display: block; ">There is a very good reason why you need to read the label of every product you buy every time, <em>even</em> if you trust the company's labeling practices. The reason is because manufacturers can change the manufacturing process, packaging or facilities without alerting the consumer. Some manufacturers add an allergy warning if they know the product might be cross contaminated with an allergen. &nbsp;This is the case with Kraft Canada Foods, which is why I love to purchase their products, because I feel more comfortable with their labeling practices. It is because I trust their labeling that I read the label every time.&nbsp;<br /><br />Checking the label is the best way to find out what is in the product or what it may have come in contact with.&nbsp;Reading every label every time is an essential part of living with food allergies.&nbsp;I admit, sometimes I slack off and don't read the label, especially when I'm short on time. I tend to just grab the box off the shelf and throw it in the cart. I know that my husband is going to double check after me but still - it's no excuse.<br /><br />Today while I was grocery shopping I put two small cans of Fry's Cocoa Powder in the cart without looking twice. I knew that the big cans of Fry's Cocoa have an allergy warning on the label with regards to milk, eggs and nuts. However, the small cans are manufactured in a different facility. I had confirmed it by calling the company and was told that it is manufactured in a different facility that does not process dairy, eggs or nuts. But&nbsp;<em style="">(and you know there's a but)</em>&nbsp;that was last year. This year it looks like Fry's may have changed facilities. I called the manufacturer today. Currently, <strong><em>some</em></strong>&nbsp;of their small cans, just like the big cans, have an allergy warning on them. I saw it at the grocery store today. It clearly states on the label: MAY CONTAIN MILK. Some of the small containers are manufactured in a facility that does not process milk, eggs or nuts. But some are manufactured in a facility that processes those allergens. Therefore, it is essential to read the label of every can you pick up while grocery shopping as there is no way to know which batch/facility that particular can came from. Despite my disappointment, I have to give the manufacturer credit for labeling. They have done their part; it is my responsibility to read the label every time.<br /><br />Needless to say, I returned the Fry's Cocoa Powder containers back to the shelf and picked up a different brand - one that is not potentially cross contaminated with dairy, eggs or nuts.<br /><br />Lesson learned: READ EVERY LABEL EVERY TIME.&nbsp;<br /></div> <hr  style=" clear: both; visibility: hidden; width: 100%; "></hr>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Together Family Magazine]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2011/08/together-family-magazine.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2011/08/together-family-magazine.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 24 Aug 2011 11:09:46 -0400</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2011/08/together-family-magazine.html</guid><description><![CDATA[   [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a href='http://togetherfamily.ca/mom-to-mom/living-allergic/' target='_blank'><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/9284772.jpg?647" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style=' float: left; z-index: 10; position: relative; ;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a href='http://togetherfamily.ca/' target='_blank'><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/8937920.png?254" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;"></div></span> <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: justify; display: block; "><font size="2">I was recently interviewed by the editor of&nbsp;<a href="http://togetherfamily.ca/" target="_blank" title="" style="">Together Family Magazine</a>, a publication distributed in daycares nationally. The article, "<a href="http://togetherfamily.ca/mom-to-mom/living-allergic/" target="_blank" title="" style="">Living Allergic</a>", focused on what it's like to live with food allergies and anaphylaxis. Overall, the interview went very well. It was nice to see our concerns are being taken seriously. I hope this creates more awareness about allergies and anaphylaxis in daycares across the country.</font><br /></div> <hr  style=" clear: both; visibility: hidden; width: 100%; "></hr>  <div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/9817030.jpg?647" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[New Allergies]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2011/06/new-allergies.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2011/06/new-allergies.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2011 11:43:25 -0400</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2011/06/new-allergies.html</guid><description><![CDATA[  The latest development in our little family's life involves the disco [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/2285307.jpg?354" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div>  <div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: justify; "><font size="2">The latest development in our little family's life involves the discovery of some new allergies. Well, we had suspected but it has been confirmed. After living in a constant state of suffering and misery, we have finally figured out what my husband is allergic to: dustmites. It turns out those little buggers were responsible for his hacking cough, lack of breathing, stuffy nose and a head that feels twice as big.&nbsp;<br /><br />On our second visit to T's allergist, I stepped outside for a minute to take my little girl to the bathroom. When we came back my poor husband had walked out of the doctor's office with one very swollen arm and a face as red as a beet. He was completely stuffed up, eyes watering and very miserable. The little marks on his arm read CRAB, &nbsp;LOBSTER, SHRIMP. I could see some serious hives next to all three, which later on spread and melded into one massive swollen area. It turns out he's allergic to shellfish - severely. What did the doctor call it... "profound reaction"!&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="2">He always suspected that he was allergic to lobster, but not shrimp or crab, and not like this. He had always said it was just a mild reaction; he'd get sick after eating lobster. However, after the latest allergy test we have seen the light. And to think, all those times we ate at seafood restaurants&nbsp;and ignored shellfish warnings on labels. Close calls! Despite this recent discovery, we are still living our life unaffected really. Maya does not even like the smell of seafood, and T never liked it anyway. I do not eat lobster or crab; never have, never will. However, I have a lot of respect for people who do. I lack the courage to put those things in my mouth. Crabs especially, very much resemble the facehuggers from Aliens. And lobsters, well, they look like a cockroach on steroids. The only thing I might miss is shrimp, but I'd miss my husband more if he had to spend half the night in the ER because of a reaction to shrimp.</font><br /><font size="2"><br />Needless to say, after his <em>profound reaction</em> we promptly picked up an epipen. Ah, all is good in the world. Now, if only I could convince him to carry the darn thing.</font></div>  <div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/4505737.jpg?647" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div>  ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Santa and his elves]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/12/santa-and-his-elves.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/12/santa-and-his-elves.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 20 Dec 2010 14:00:59 -0400</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/12/santa-and-his-elves.html</guid><description><![CDATA[Every year, Santa and his elves come to the mall. He sits on his big co [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/3696086.gif?564" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div><div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: justify; "><font size="2">Every year, Santa and his elves come to the mall. He sits on his big comfy chair, surrounded by Christmas trees and large stockings full of treats. Families gather around with their kids and people wait in line for hours to take pictures of their children sitting on Santa's lap, talking to him and receiving candy at the end of the visit. Our little girl loved this visit and looked forward to it every year. This year however, she was disappointed, and so were we.<br /><br />We went to the mall as usual, and Maya was so excited to see Santa, but could not go anywhere near him. Upon arrival to the area, we noticed that there was food everywhere and chocolate smeared on the ground, pillars and the walls. Apparently, the elves were doling out candy and chocolates to the kids <em>while they were waiting</em> in line to visit Santa. Normally, candy was given after the visit so that parents would escort the kids away and the chocolates were eaten elsewhere. This year, kids were hopped up on candy before they even got to Santa. I'm not entirely sure if Santa and his elves came up with that brilliant idea or if upper management at the North Pole issued a corporate wide policy change. In any case, what ensued was a disappointing experience.<br /><br />What would normally be an exciting time for most families, especially kids, was an absolute nightmare for us and treacherous for Maya. Navigating the mall was like walking into a minefield. Everywhere I turned there was ice cream, chocolate bars, coffee, etc. even in sitting areas that were far away from the food court. I was trying to formulate a thought in my head - how to tell Maya that she cannot visit with Santa this year, because his suit is covered in milk chocolate residue, and his chair has little hand prints of candy stains. It is sad that a child should have to understand this sort of thing at an early age but there was just no way I could put a positive spin on this one. <em>Honey, Santa is contaminated and we can't approach him without hazardous materials suits.</em></font><br /><br /><font size="2">As I stood in front of Santa's house, held Maya's little hand and tried to absorb the magnitude of the danger I had just exposed my child to, I spotted an elf heading our way. But instead of talking to me, he simply smiled at Maya and pulled out a box of Smarties chocolates from the bag. Innocently, Maya put out her hand to grab the seemingly harmless gift and was startled by the loud "NO!" her father and I uttered in the same breath. The whole incident took less than a second. I was holding her hand, and using my other hand to keep kids away from her <em>(with their chocolate covered faces and hands)</em> as well as keep Maya from touching the walls that were also covered in smears of chocolates and coffee cups parked at the corners. In the same moment, my husband dove in to yank the chocolate out of her hand and remind her that she cannot have those because she is allergic to milk. I turned around to tell the elf that she is allergic and cannot have those. We proceeded to walk away when we noticed the elf behind us again and this time he pulled out a candy cane from the bag and gave it to Maya. Again, I took it out of her hand, as she cried, and I put it away and offered her a different kind of candy that is safe while her father tried to console her.</font><br /><font size="2"><br />&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; -------------------------------</font><br /><font size="2"><br />Santa, I know that this time of year you're probably busy getting stuck in chimneys and whatnot but I'm not at all impressed with the new policy, namely giving candy to kids before their visit. I don't want to be "shoulding" all over you but you "should" have considered at the very least, those who are allergic to nuts. And let's not even talk about the logistics of that decision and the&nbsp;repercussions. For example, isn't it a waste of financial resources to give all the kids candy without doing the necessary research first. There is insufficient evidence to prove that all those kids were nice. I'm certain that a small portion of them were naughty and deserved nothing but reindeer droppings <em>(or coal)</em>. Not to mention, the lack of understanding we received from your elves <em>(and other parents who rolled their eyes at me when I stated that Maya is allergic - those parents should be receiving droppings as well, perhaps even bear droppings)</em>. Even after I told the elf that she was allergic, he proceeded to give her something else that she could be allergic to. He just assumed that she is allergic to peanuts <em>(and she is, but she's also deathly allergic to dairy and eggs)</em> when he could have asked what her allergies are before giving her anything else.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="2">I'm not asking for much, Santa, just for your staff to be a little bit understanding and for upper management to be a little more creative.&nbsp;Santa, why give food at all? Wouldn't a little toy trinket be safer and better for everyone involved? Or simply stickers, Santa; everyone loves stickers, even adults love stickers <em>(when they don't have to peel them off the walls, floors, sinks, and other important areas). </em></font><br /><br /><font size="2">Santa, I have been a loyal customer </font><em style="font-size: small; ">(and fan)</em><font size="2"> of yours for the past 30 years and I feel that this latest incident has caused me to question your motives and the entire validity of Christmas. Before making any more policy changes, please take into account all your customers, not just a portion of them. My little girl is starting to doubt your existence </font><em style="font-size: small; ">(she's too young I know, but she's also quite clever - and your latest stunt did not help)</em><font size="2">&nbsp;and is not sure if you deserve a plate of cookies this year. Please pass my concerns onto the North Pole management team. Thank you for your cooperation and I look forward to seeing you soon with plenty of toys and no food.</font><br /><br /><font size="2"><span style="line-height: 19px;">Sincerely,</span></font><br /><br /><font size="2"><span style="line-height: 19px;">Allergy Mom</span></font><br /><font size="2"><span style="line-height: 19px;">CEO<br /></span></font><span style="line-height: 19px; font-size: small; ">Twilight Zone Central</span><br /><br /></div><div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/5788938.jpg?607" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Cake Decorations]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/11/cake-decorations.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/11/cake-decorations.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 02 Nov 2010 15:08:09 -0400</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/11/cake-decorations.html</guid><description><![CDATA[Someone visited my site today and asked a question abo [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/9505076.jpg?470" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div><div  class="paragraph editable-text" style=" text-align: justify; "><span style="font-size: small;">Someone visited my site today and asked a question about cake decorations. I'm compelled to share the information I've collected because so many people have asked the same question and because that's just the type of person I am... collect and distribute, fast and efficient, overworked and underappreciated, but that's a story for another time. Right now we need to focus on those sprinkles. The ones I've been using for the past two years are made by McCormick Canada and are called Cake Mate.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small;">After extensive research, the only brand that seems to be safe for dairy, egg, peanut, and tree nut allergies is Cake Mate. And don't even ask about the conversation I had with Wilton and the overly intelligent service rep who only answered each question after I repeated it twice; suffice to say, Wilton cake decorations are not safe. Okay, back to Cake Mate. Please be advised, Cake Mate made by Signature Brands in the USA is <strong>NOT</strong> safe. Some of their products contain nuts and eggs. I am not sure how they label their products. However, Cake Mate made by McCormick Canada is safe. A quick phone call this afternoon confirmed that they are still manufacturing their cake decorations, sprinkles and icings in a facility that is completely peanut and tree nut free. Also, eggs and dairy are not even processed on the same lines. In addition, McCormick Canada lists allergens on their products. Some of the Cake Mate decorations have egg allergy warning on them, but according to the McCormick Canada rep they are processed in an entirely different facility. So just make sure that the version of Cake Mate you buy, lists McCormick Canada on the packaging. It will also list Signature Brands because both marks are used under licence, but if it lists <em>only</em> Signature <em>without</em> McCormick, then you may want to call Signature to confirm that the product is safe.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small;">Here is the information for anyone wishing to call McCormick Canada and confirm allergen listing: 1-800-265-2600. Oh and if you get conflicting information please let me know. We're all in this together.</span><br /><br /><span style="line-height: 19px; font-size: small;">Good luck and happy decorating.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-size: small;">-- Allergy Mom out --</span></div><div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/8750895.jpg?607" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Allergy Exposé: Informing the Newly Diagnosed]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/05/allergy-expos-informing-the-newly-diagnosed.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/05/allergy-expos-informing-the-newly-diagnosed.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2010 16:11:17 -0400</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/05/allergy-expos-informing-the-newly-diagnosed.html</guid><description><![CDATA[DISCLAIMER:&nbsp;This article is not for the faint of heart. It goes without saying that the content on this web site is based on my opinion (except comments written by others, which reflect their opinions). I am aware that I have strong opinions and I understand that not everyone will agree with these opinions, or how I choose to express them.&nbsp;Others may think of me as pessimistic, but I'd like to think of mys [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph" style=" text-align: justify; "><strong>DISCLAIMER:</strong>&nbsp;This article is not for the faint of heart. It goes without saying that the content on this web site is based on my opinion <em>(except comments written by others, which reflect their opinions)</em>. I am aware that I have strong opinions and I understand that not everyone will agree with these opinions, or how I choose to express them.&nbsp;Others may think of me as pessimistic, but I'd like to think of myself as practical.&nbsp;The views and opinions expressed in this article are mine and in no way reflect the views of other families living with allergies. What I write is true for me and my family and is not meant as advice, legal or medical. If you are easily depressed please do not read this article. I accept no blame for misinterpretation or misuse of the written content.</div><div ><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 80%;"></div><hr style="background-color:#777777; border:0pt none; color:#777777; height:1px; margin:0 auto; text-align: center; width:80%;"></hr><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 80%;"></div></div><div  class="paragraph" style=" text-align: justify; "><span style="font-size: small;">When a child is first diagnosed with an allergy typically the parents are told that the child is allergic to any X products and that strict avoidance is the only way to stay safe. That, and they are given a few pamphlets about the allergen along with a prescription for epinephrine. Some places provide epipen training but the majority don't. From what I hear, that is the extent of allergy education and information on behalf of medical professionals. At least that's the way it works in this province. After that, the responsibility falls on the shoulders of parents to find out more information through diligent and continuous research.<br /><br />The process of managing multiple life threatening allergies starts off with a progression of stages that are very similar to the stages of grief if you will:<br /><br /><em><strong>Denial </strong></em>- Parents are in total shock, especially if they have never been exposed to allergies or anaphylaxis previously. They don't believe this is happening to their child. They may seek a second opinion for fear that the doctor is inexperienced or made a mistake. Some will even continue to feed their child products containing the allergen in the hopes that it will "cure" the allergy.<br /><br /><em><strong>Anger </strong></em>- After the initial shock wears off, parents start looking for someone to blame. Upset by everything and everyone, they start looking into their family history to deflect blame (<em>e.g. this didn't come from MY side of the family</em>). They do not understand why this happened to their child and sometimes feel envy towards parents with non allergic kids. That coupled with their frustration that there is no cure for allergies often creates resentment towards parents who are not familiar with the world of allergies. In many cases, parents direct the anger towards each other especially if one is still angry while the other has accepted the chain of events.&nbsp;<br /><br /><em><strong>Bargaining </strong></em>- The parents of the allergic child start to doubt the severity of the allergy. They hope that their child can have a little bit of the allergen without reacting to it; that if they can at least have the allergen in something small that this will be okay. For some parents, eliminating the allergens and keeping reactions at bay means that their child does not have special needs and is "normal", and can pursue activities enjoyed by other children as well.<br /><br /><em><strong>Depression </strong></em>- Reality begins to sink in and parents realize that their child is special, especially if there were a few close calls. They withdraw and disconnect from others for fear that they might expose their child to the allergen. Some may even cut off ties with family and friends who do not understand the nature of allergies. They realize that they cannot do the things that other non allergic families do, such as going out to restaurants, to the movies, or play dates. They inadvertently isolate their child fearing for his/her safety, particularly if friends and family are not making an effort to create a safe environment for the child. If support within the local community is limited or nonexistent, this feeling of demoralization is compounded.<br /><br /><em><strong>Acceptance </strong></em>- Parents will eventually accept the dramatic change in lifestyle. Many will actively manage and deal with everyday situations through prior preparation and education. Some will become advocates for the rights of those with allergies and will dedicate all their time towards the spread of awareness and information about allergies. Others may choose to remain secluded after gathering the necessary information and take the us versus them approach.<br /><br />I'm aware that there are a large number of people involved in the allergy community who would like all allergy sufferers to believe that the world is a great place and that life, although altered, is still pretty much the same. They would have you&nbsp;believe&nbsp;that support is on every corner and that you're not alone. Perhaps that is true for some, but I would much rather have someone give me <em>all </em>the facts, good and bad, as opposed to only some of the facts. When you first stumble unto a support group, there is this sense of belonging and euphoria, if you will. It's almost like a drug high; it feels good while it lasts but then you come crashing afterward when you discover that all is not well. I think newly diagnosed <em>(and seasoned) </em>families may be interested in a different point of view. This article does not include "good news" - you can get that anywhere. There are plenty of people, web sites, books, and other venues that focus on nothing but the positives in the world of allergies. The food allergy battle may very well be a victorious one <em>(someday)</em>, but this piece is about what takes place in the trenches. This is about one family's experience but try to think of it as part of the big picture. This is what I see when I take off those pink tinted glasses, and stop viewing the world through a field of roses:<br /><br />- No one cares more about your child than you. Your child's survival depends on you, the parent, not the doctor, not the babysitter, not family, not school, and not friends. You will meet people in personal and professional capacities who will come across as sincere but really their underlying motivation will often stem from self preservation and their fear of causing harm to your child. They are afraid of the liability and so refuse to be responsible for your child. That means daycare, babysitters, as well as family and friends. Do not be surprised if even your closest family members refuse to babysit your child or show no interest in easing your hardship. Ultimately, it is their best interest that they're looking after, not your child's.<br /><br />- Support is not available on every corner, not in this province. Perhaps larger provinces may have support for those living with anaphylaxis, but in small provinces things are quite different. At first, you will be inclined to move to a different country, where laws are more accommodating to those living with allergies and where education and awareness is more prevalent. Then you will come to the realization that this is not going to work for various reasons. Allergy organizations have their own agendas and work on things according to their convenience and set of priorities which may not match yours.<br /><br />- Get in the habit of hoping for the best and preparing for the worst. Most people are selfish, ignorant and suffer from tunnel vision. They have no desire to educate themselves on matters that do not have a direct impact on their life, even if their actions negatively affect others. Our actions are inherently self serving, even those that relate to our offspring such as protecting and providing for our children. Its purpose is to ensure the survival of our species, and to increase our share of the genetic "market" as it were. From a logical point of view, it makes total sense yet seems oddly disturbing. This is a philosophical discussion that perhaps belongs to another time. Nonetheless, what it boils down to is that for every one person who genuinely cares, you are likely to find 99 other people who just don't give a s**t.<br /><br />- Get accustomed to being ignored and let it roll off your back. Generally, people will not respond to your emails and will not return your calls <em>(even within the allergy community)</em>. It's part of the process. You are unimportant and a nuisance to them and not someone they want to deal with. Expect ignorance and callousness. I've had daycare staff yell at me when I called to inquire about whether they take in kids with allergies. These are people I have not met or spoken to before, but as soon as they hear of severe food allergies they loudly bark at me "NOT INTERESTED!" and hang up. It's not personal; it's a liability issue to them.<br /><br />- Get with the program. Your child has special needs just like any other kid with a special need. If there is funding for special needs children, your child will be at the low end of the totem pole. If there are any special circumstances or accommodations for people with disabilities or special needs your child will not qualify because allergies are not seen as a disability. Even with government and institutional programs, your child will not be accommodated due to allergies. Take the CRA's decision to grant Gluten allergic individuals the ability to claim their gluten free foods under medical expenses. A child who is diagnosed with Celiac Disease can claim that expense, because according to the CRA, gluten free foods are hard to find and expensive and that creates undue hardship for the family. Yet, a child with a life threatening allergy to wheat and barley for example, cannot claim that expense, even though they buy the same gluten free food, and in fact if they were to consume those gluten foods they would suffer anaphylaxis.<br /><br />- Do not be surprised when parents of non allergic children take it upon themselves to educate you on proper parenting skills and what constitutes neglect. I've met many parents along the way who believe that I should be staying at home with my child and was even told flat out by one parent that I "should not let my daughter out of the house because of her allergies." Most parents will judge you, and some of them will be parents of allergic kids. Some parents expect you to quit your job and stay at home with your allergic child yet somehow still manage to magically make money. Those are the same people that send their child to school sick because they could not afford to take a day off work.<br /><br />- It's going to be shocking at first but get used to the fact that within the allergy community there is a multi-tiered system for allergies. It's not deliberate <em>(though some might argue otherwise)</em> but it's definitely present. Often children with only peanut allergies get preferential treatment. If an issue about peanut allergy arises, allergy organizations will gather and rally for support and advocacy. Any other allergy is parked on the sidelines. Many parents of peanut allergic children will tell you that peanut butter is especially hard to clean because it clings to everything and that is why banning it is a necessity. I beg to differ. Try wiping margarine off a surface without thoroughly soaping it. To a child with a severe milk allergy, dairy margarine is as poisonous as it gets. Yet parents, even ones with peanut allergic children, will be the first in line to protest if you even hint at banning milk products, and in that they have the backing of allergy organizations.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small;">- You will be exposed to all sorts of theories and ideas out there. There will always be one excuse after another for the reason why one allergy is treated different than another. You will commonly hear that peanut allergic families for example, have been fighting the allergy battle for a lot longer than other allergies and that is why they got what they have today, that this somehow justifies the type of preferential treatment they get. And you will keep hearing that, even though your child is also allergic to peanuts, yet they speak to you like an outsider, like your allergies don't fall under the same category. Most people are often just confused and misunderstand your intentions: <em>that ALL allergy sufferers be treated equally</em>.<br /><br /></span><span style="font-size: small;">- As frustrating and offensive as it sounds, expect to be asked for photos. Get in the habit of taking pictures of every reaction and documenting in detail what you think led to the reaction and what medication was administered.&nbsp;Doctors will not trust your judgment or assessment of the situation. You don't have a medical degree and so they are inclined to believe that when it comes to allergies, you are either paranoid, exaggerating, or misunderstand the facts. Often, they do not see the reaction when it happens. They believe that <em>you </em>believe what you say is true but they will require proof to make an accurate assessment. That being said, do not take these people for granted. They work long and hard to make life better for you and your child. They see a lot of patients and because allergies are on the rise it's no surprise that they are diagnosing new patients every day. They may not be able to give you the time of day, but they often work very hard behind the scenes to advance the allergy cause.</span><br /><br /><span style="line-height: 20px; font-size: small;">- Expect to hear nasty and unkind remarks about your child and their condition. You will be told that your child is a genetic anomaly that was never meant to develop into a human being, that survival of the fittest ensures our species remains strong by weeding out the weak and that by catering and protecting children with allergies we are allowing genetic defects to run rampant within our species thereby weakening it and diluting the strong genetic code. Do not let it bother you. Those people change their mind as soon as they get sick.</span><br /><br /><span style="line-height: 20px; font-size: small;">- Do not be surprised if your child is labeled. I've seen <em>(and heard)</em> a number of people refer to my child in terms other than her name. I've heard a teacher call her "heat rash girl", and several friends and babysitters have referred to her as "allergy girl". Those are just a few of the things that have been said to her face. Do not let it bother you especially in front of your child. You don't want her to in any way perceive that she is a burden, because she is not.<br /></span><br /><span style="line-height: 20px; font-size: small;">- You will meet at least one or two allergy parents who will see the silver lining in everything. They will be the ones who will be able to put a positive spin on even the most terrible of events. They will encourage you to learn from your mistakes and will try to find something positive in the negative. They can have very valuable advice and they are often very nice people, but be aware, they have been doing this longer than you and have acquired a bit of a thick skin. It's not that they don't care or aren't listening. On the contrary, they most likely understand exactly what you are going through because they have been there too, but this is their way of coping with the bad stuff.<br /></span><br /><span style="line-height: 20px; font-size: small; ">- Do not underestimate the power of the world wide web. I have gotten more information and support from internet sites such as <a href="http://www.allergicliving.com/" target="_blank">Allergic Living</a>'s forum for example, as opposed to local support groups and official allergy organizations. You can reach a much wider group of people who have been exposed to many things in the allergy community and there is a wealth of information on allergy forums and other allergy sites. Pay special attention to blogs by other allergy parents. You will learn from their experiences <em>(or mistakes)</em> and generally speaking have no qualms providing information as they don't have liability issues beyond the disclaimer on their blog or web site.</span><br /><br /><span style="line-height: 20px; font-size: small;">- Last but not least, understand that change does not happen at an exponential rate and that in most cases, for things to really improve, something dramatic has to happen. Unless a number of people in high public office have children with severe food allergies, laws and policies will not be easily implemented because no one in office cares enough to push for any change. In this province, a child will most likely have to die of anaphylaxis before any real action is taken to prevent it, especially for children with multiple food allergies. You just have to make sure that it's not <em>your </em>child.</span><br /><br /><span style="line-height: 20px; font-size: small;">With the above in mind, I am not going to tell you that everything will be okay, but I ask you not to give up. Things get better because you learn to adapt quicker. Allergy parents are a special breed. We are strong, resilient and creative. Keep your chin up and refer to <a href="http://www.allergymom.ca/parents-rights.html">this</a> whenever you have doubts.</span><br /></div><div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/7936734.jpg?607" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Daycares & Discrimination - Round Two]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/02/daycares-discrimination-round-two.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/02/daycares-discrimination-round-two.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 10:02:06 -0400</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/02/daycares-discrimination-round-two.html</guid><description><![CDATA[So I was finally able to get the low down on the menu approval system for daycares. To get to the bottom of things, I had to pressure directors to give me a reason for rejecting Maya. Ninety percent of the time the reason they gave was the fact that they would feel safer if they could eliminate dairy products from their menu for that classroom, but that Public Health Services would not approve the menu unless  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div  class="paragraph" style=" text-align: justify; "><span style="font-size: small;">So I was finally able to get the low down on the menu approval system for daycares. To get to the bottom of things, I had to pressure directors to give me a reason for rejecting Maya. Ninety percent of the time the reason they gave was the fact that they would feel safer if they could eliminate dairy products from their menu for that classroom, but that Public Health Services would not approve the menu unless it had milk in it. Thus the problem.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small;">Last week, I had a conversation with one of the nutritionists at Public Health - the people responsible for approving daycare menus. She informed me that there is no such mandate that dictates milk must be present in the menu unless it's for children under 2 whereby that is indeed the case. However, for children over 2 (i.e. toddlers and preschoolers) there should be no reason why the daycare cannot replace milk/dairy items with things that contain the same nutritional values. She also said that they work with some daycares to help adjust the menu to accommodate lack of dairy and that it has been done successfully before.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small;">It's baffling as to why daycares are reluctant to implement something that they suggested in the first place. I do not ask daycares to ban milk, eggs, or otherwise, but there have been daycares that said they would feel more comfortable if they banned dairy. These are daycares that already eliminated nuts/peanuts, as well as eggs, from their menu. Many of the daycares I've visited have banned eggs from the entire centre for the sake of one child, yet when it comes to milk, they will not do the same for my child. I am confused as to why daycares would not simply replace dairy with soy derivatives that are already fortified with all the nutrients available in dairy products.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small;">In the past year, more than one daycare has mentioned that they think it's "unfair for the rest of the kids" to ban milk from the menu. Yet, they do not think it's unfair to ban eggs, peanuts, or sesame for the sake of one child.&nbsp;What's really <em>unfair</em> is that my daughter's life is put in danger because someone else would be happier consuming what's poison to her. My little girl is not allergic to sesame or wheat, but I had no problem with daycares that eliminated both of those foods. It's perfectly acceptable for her not to eat wheat or sesame if it means another child will be safe. She can eat those items at home. It's a small price to pay to make sure that children are safe.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small;">Is my child less worthy than those kids? I don't ask these daycares to ban any food items because I prefer education about cross contamination over banning, but if those daycares are the ones pushing to eliminate the item, what right do they have to decide that my daughter's safety is worth less than the safety of other kids? This, in and of itself is discrimination. It's simple; I believe any allergic child's safety is worth more than the convenience of eating an allergen. With that in mind, I believe any daycare that thinks otherwise has no business being in the child care industry.</span></div><div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/2384980.jpg?607" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Birthday Party]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/02/mayas-birthday.html]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/02/mayas-birthday.html#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 09:21:58 -0400</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.allergymom.ca/1/post/2010/02/mayas-birthday.html</guid><description><![CDATA[Yesterday, we celebrated Maya's third birthday at the grandparents'  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/3283469.jpg?607" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div><div  class="paragraph" style=" text-align: justify; "><span style="font-size: small;">Yesterday, we celebrated Maya's third birthday at the grandparents' house. This year was the first year that I actually made <em><strong>edible </strong></em>dairy, egg, and nut free treats. To make sure the place was safe for Maya, we decided to take care of the whole food/snacks/treats thing. I made everything from scratch, including the kids' lunches. It was a great party.&nbsp;<br /><br />Both recipes for the cake and cupcakes came from Kelly Rudnicki (<a href="http://www.foodallergymama.com/" target="_blank">Food Allergy Mama</a>). I used the Red Velvet cake recipe for the Dora cake, which was a huge hit with the kids because of the obvious theme, but the adults loved how moist it was and the flavour got rave reviews. For the cupcakes, I used Kelly's Vanilla Cupcake Recipe. Oh and the frosting was Kelly's recipe too. To round out the party I also made several cookies and other snacks. Among those were snickerdoodle cookies, chocolate chip cookies, and wildberry rugelach. My father-in-law fell in love with the chocolate chip cookies <em>(so he's going to get a batch every time we visit)</em>. The snickerdoodles and rugelach were so popular that people actually took them home to snack on them later.</span><br /><br /><span style="line-height: 20px; font-size: small;">As for the kids, it was a challenge for us to keep them from digging into the cake with their fingers. They could not get enough of the frosting. It was a miracle that I was able to take a picture of it before the kids started poking holes at it with their cute little pinkies.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-size: small;">No one believed that the food was dairy, egg, and nut free. Everything tasted better than the usual cakes and cookies that have eggs and milk in them. I was so pleased and of course my little girl was happy. She got to have her cake and eat it too, not to mention, the presents. We had one very excited little girl. Thank you Kelly! You helped me make my little girl's day and that is worth a lot to me.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small;">Food Allergy Mama's recipes are amazing and I have tried many of them. They all taste fabulous. I strongly recommend her <a href="http://www.amazon.ca/Food-Allergy-Mamas-Baking-Book/dp/1572841028/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1265548698&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank">book</a> if you like baked goods. I cannot say enough about it. In the meantime, if you want to check out the individual recipes that I made for the party, click on the links below.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.foodallergymama.com/2009/10/22/dairy-egg-and-nut-free-snickerdoodle-cookies/" target="_blank">Snickerdoodle Cookies</a></span><br /><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.foodallergymama.com/2008/11/05/the-best-chocolate-chip-cookie-youll-ever-have/" target="_blank">Chocolate Chip Cookies</a></span><br /><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.foodallergymama.com/2009/12/10/dairy-egg-and-nut-free-rugelach-and-hanukkah-sugar-cookies-w-homemade-blue-sugar/" target="_blank">Wildberry Rugelach</a></span><br /><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.foodallergymama.com/2009/12/06/happy-birthday-to-me-dairy-egg-and-nut-free-red-velvet-cake/" target="_blank">Red Velvet Cake</a></span><br /><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.foodallergymama.com/2009/02/16/the-perfect-dairy-egg-and-nut-free-vanilla-cupcake-with-vanilla-frosting/" target="_blank">Vanilla Cupcakes with Frosting</a></span></div><div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/7345343.jpg?607" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div><div ><div style="text-align: center;"><a><img src="http://www.allergymom.ca/uploads/9/5/0/2/950214/8589501.jpg?607" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0;" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder" /></a><div style="display: block; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>

